Sunday, September 28
"The One Where...Life is a Gift"
So, as most of you know, the many duties of my job include taking call. I absolutely dread hearing that pager go off at 2am and having to crawl out of my warm, comfy bed and rush off to the hospital. Once I get there and we end up saving someone's life because they are suffering a severe heart attack makes it all worth it in the end. However, nothing irritates me more than getting called in for a coke-head who has snorted too much cocaine and who arrives in cardiac arrest. Then I go home even more pissed than I was before I was woke up at 2am! And those cokeheads ALWAYS survive - just to be released to go back out into the world and snort the rest of their life away!
The only time I don't mind being called in is for a brain-dead patient who is about to become an organ donor. We do a cardiac cath on every organ donor in the hospital before they are taken off of life support. The reason is we need to make sure the donor heart doesn't have clogged arteries as well as muscle damage before it is transplanted into someone else. It is a bittersweet situation - you have someone who is basically dead with family & friends losing a loved one. On the other hand, they are saving someone elses life and providing their family & friends more time with their loved one. It is always a different "aura" in the room when we do procedures on these patients. I can't explain it, but I would like to think it is because the patients' spirit is looking down upon us & watching over us. It is always surprisingly calm & quiet during the procedure. Eerie, I know!
This exact scenario happened to me 2 weeks ago. It was 1:30am and the pager went off. I did my usual grumble, called the hospital operator and all she told me was a name and the doctor doing the procedure. I then made my way to the hospital. When we get there we are given all the info on the patient. It ended up being a man in his 30's who had gotten into a fight outside a bar. He was punched, hit the pavement and hit the exact spot in the back of the head that will stop your breathing instantly - the brain stem. It was a very sad situation. He was young, just recently married, out for an innocent evening with his buddies and there he was - his life over in an instant. His heart ended up being very healthy, of course and he was taken immediately from our procedure room to the OR to have his organs harvested. I didn't end up driving home mad this time. In fact, I was very sad and bothered that such a young man's life had been taken from his wife, his family and his friends.
This past Friday, I received a letter as did the rest of the cath team that worked on this young man. It was from the Midwest Transplant Network. It started by thanking us for being in this man's care and then told us how this man's death resulted in 5 peoples lives being saved through his organ donation:
-a man in Wichita received his heart
-a woman & teenage boy received his kidneys
-a woman in Chicago received his lungs
-a man in St. Louis received his liver
-a woman received his corneas
-the pancreas was donated for islet cell research that will help insulin-dependent diabetics make their own insulin
-his skin will benefit burn victims
-numerous patients benefited through the donation of his tissues, bone and bone marrow
After you read how one man's life can change so many others lives is the rewarding part of my job - even after having to get up at 2am to come in. Life is truly a gift and ironically, sometimes so is death.
I am proud to say I am an organ donor and have been for many years. I'm not sure how you all feel about organ donation but if you aren't an organ donor and want to know more about it or how you can sign up, please visit the following link: http://organdonor.gov
"The purpose of life is not to be happy - but to matter, to be productive, to be useful, to have it make some difference that you have lived at all." ~Leo Rosten
Friday, September 19
"The One With...What Happens in Vegas..."
Hoover Dam was amazing! I found it fascinating that this incredible monument was man-made! When you stand next to it, the size is unimaginable. Here are some facts I learned about the dam during our tour: it is over 70-stories tall, the top of the dam is more than 1,200 feet long, at the base, it is 660 feet thick and at the top it is 45 feet thick. The water on the Lake Mead side is more than 500 feet deep, and the lake holds a total of 10 trillion gallons of water. Also, the dam provides electricty (via hydropower) to Arizona (19%), Nevada (24%), and Southern California (56%). Surprisingly, Las Vegas, which has an obvious need for alot of electricity, only gets about 4% of its power from the Hoover Dam.
After our tour of the dam, we figured we would drive to the Grand Canyon and check out the West Rim since it was only 90 miles away. Little did we know it would end up being the roadtrip from hell!
THURSDAY: Our first official day on the strip. We made sure to put on our walking shoes before we ventured out and by the end of the day we were glad to have had them. We were in and out of several different hotels taking it all in and ended up eating dinner at a Brazilian Steakhouse which was awesome. The servers went around the room with 14 different skewers of grilled meat and 5 different kinds of seafood which we thoroughly enjoyed. After stuffing ourselves silly, we headed to the Luxor to see the Carrot-Top comedy show. This ended up being an excellent show! We have never laughed as hard as we did that night. That guy is hilarious with all his props and stories - a definite must-see!FRIDAY: By now, we are finding out that our nights seem to get later and later and our mornings we are sleeping in much longer! We ended up sleeping right through breakfast and managed to get up and ready by lunch time. We made our way to the Hard Rock Cafe for lunch, toured all the rock-n-roll memorabilia and headed back to the strip for some more sight-seeing.
Later that night we attended our first real show at the Bellagio: Cirque de Soleil "O". Words can't describe how awesome this show was. We were mesmorized throughout the entire performance and was sad that it had to end. Once you experience it, you will spend the rest of your night wondering "just how did they do that???" It was quite pricey of a show but worth every penny!
our neighbors' Brian and Julie along with their 2 friends at Margaritaville for lunch and enjoyed the atmosphere of the Jimmy Buffet bar & grill. Our afternoon consisted of more sight-seeing and I even managed to get Shane to do some clothes shopping at the Forum Shops at Caesers Palace - which ended up being a GREAT place for shopping and people watching.
SUNDAY: This was the morning that I treated myself while Shane slept in. Me & the girls all met at 9am & spent the morning at the Qua Spa in Caeser's Palace. We started our morning off with a massage and then 2 hours in the spa itself which consisted of 2 different saunas, 3 Roman baths with different temperatures, an Arctic Ice room, marble chaise lounge chairs that heated as you laid in them, a warming closet to hang your robe in while in the jacuzzi's and overhead rain showers. It was the most relaxing 3 hours ever and I didn't want to leave! I walked out of there feeling like a new woman! I will definitely be coming back to this place next year. Maybe I can even get Shane to join me?!? :)After I returned from the spa, Shane & I headed to the Stratosphere to check out the sites of the city from the top. Shane wasn't very excited to be up there and I soon discovered my husband has a fear of heights. As I'm walking along the edge of the observation deck taking pictures & enjoying the view, I notice Shane keeping very close to the inside wall. He did enjoy watching the people experience the rides on the top of the Stratosphere and we both agreed that there was NO way we were making an attempt to ride any of them.
After the Masquerade Show, Shane and I had tickets to see the magicians Penn & Teller. It was a GREAT show and we sat there in amazement as we watched them. Afterwards, they both hung out in the lobby meeting guests, signing autographs and taking pictures with fans. After the show, we headed back to our hotel, stopped for ice cream and made our way to the front of Treasure Island to watch the "Sirens of TI" pirate show. We were sad it was our last night of vacation but were both ready to get back home to the dogs and our own bed.
MONDAY: Shane and I enjoyed the breakfast buffet at TI before leaving for the airport. We managed to get the rental car dropped off and boarded our flight without any trouble at all. It was a smooth ride up until we crossed the mountains over Colorado. You know it's bad when the pilot asks the flight attendents to discontinue the beverage service and take their seats. After about 30 long, tense, bumpy minutes, it was smooth sailing the rest of the way into Kansas City. When we got home we were greeted with butt wiggles, slobbery kisses and tons of love which was the best!
And that my friends, are details of our wonderful trip. We had such a good time and we are looking forward to going again next September. Sorry it ended up being such a lengthy post!
"The One With...An Update"
We made it back late Monday night and I have been working on a vacation update all week. I will have it posted Saturday along with some pics! We had a great time but are glad to be back to reality. Vegas was fun and glamorous but very expensive!
This week I have been super busy with something going on each night - as usual. I had 2 different get-togethers with the girls for margaritas & catching up and I hosted a jewelry party on Wed evening. Sometimes I feel like my life is like a roller coaster and I just want to stop and get off for a minute :) This weekend we have NO plans other than doing some painting around the house so it will be nice to not have to go anywhere.
So check back Saturday and thanks to all who have been checking in!
Hugs...
Sunday, September 7
"The One With...The Weekend Project"
After we were all through with our project, we looked around at the carpet in the family room and decided it was in desperate need of being replaced sooner rather than later. The constant in & out through the garage door by us & the dogs as well as a certain someone never taking off his shoes when he comes inside :) is what prompted all of this. So this afternoon, we headed back to Home Depot to pick out new carpet for our family room. We ended up picking out a dark taupe-colored Frieze carpet and it should be installed in a few weeks. Slowly but surely, the "to-do" list is becoming smaller!
Wednesday, September 3
"The One Where...I Get a Ticket"
As I was on my way home, battling rush hour traffic again in the pouring-down rain I see that I am in need of some fuel - wow, I just said "fuel" - I've been hanging with Shane too much :) Anyway, I always like to fill up while I am in Missouri since it is always 10+ cents cheaper/gallon! I spot the QT at 72nd/Wornall and put on my blinker to make a left-hand turn. As I wait for an opportunity to turn (since there is NO turn lane), the guy behind me is laying on his horn and doesn't quit. Now I'm getting pissed and as I turn left I flip the guy the bird. Just as I make the turn, a man in a yellow rain slicker walks out in front of my car and stops me right in the middle of the street and traffic. As he approaches my window I see it is a cop and all I can think is "oh god, I hope he didn't see me flip that guy off!?!" I roll down my window in the pouring rain and this is what went down...Monday, September 1
"The One Where...I Enjoyed The Cake"
This weekend, my girlfriend Heather (HK) and I had the pleasure of attending our dear friend Jennifers' wedding. It took place on Saturday evening out at Powell Gardens (Kingston, MO) in the chapel on the grounds. The wedding was set to start at 8pm - right before sunset - and it was the most elegant yet simple wedding I have ever been to. For anyone in KC that will be planning a wedding in the future, you must consider this place (hint hint to Meghan :)Thursday, August 28
"The One Where...I Boycott Walgreens"
This past Sunday, I uploaded my pics from the family reunion weekend to Walgreens online photo services. I have been using them for awhile now for family/friends because it is so easy to pick the pics you want and have them printed at a Walgreens near you and be ready for pick-up in 1 hour.
Well, after this week, I will NEVER be using them again!
My mom selected her photos and an hour later went to Walgreens to pick them up in Mitchell, SD. When she asked for the pictures, the employee told her that she would need a "copyright release" form from the Photographer in order for her to purchase her pictures. This is funny seeing how all the photos came from my Sony Cybershot digital camera! My mom told the Walgreens employee this and he still wouldn't give her the pics. She also asked what right did he have to make the determination whether a photo is "professional quality" or not? These photos had no water-mark on them and were uploaded by a digital camera! Had it been me at that counter, I would have been livid & probably would have said a few things I would have regretted later!
Needless to say, she told him what he could do with the pictures and walked out of there empty handed and immediately called me. The next day I made a phone call to the Walgreens online services customer support and wasn't able to get ahold of anyone - imagine that - so I wrote a nasty email and still haven't heard back from anyone!
I don't know if I should be flattered that Walgreens thought my pictures looked "professional" or pissed that they are able to make that judgement call and deny me my photos! I bet it was those darn photos in the wicker chair that they thought were the professional ones :) Either way, I will NEVER use Walgreens photo services again!
(*stepping down from my soapbox*)
Sunday, August 24
"The One With...A Road Trip to So Dakota"
This weekend Shane & I traveled to my hometown of Mitchell, SD (home of the World's Only Corn Palace) for the weekend for the Freier Family Reunion. We were all gathering together to celebrate my grandparents 60th wedding anniversary as well as my G-ma's 80th birthday and her healthy recovery from a year-long battle with ovarian cancer. It was a fun-filled weekend that went by way to quickly. Here are some of the highlights from the weekend:We arrived in Mitchell Friday late afternoon and made our way to my aunt & uncle's hunting lodge where all the weekends' festivities were held. We all enjoyed an evening of kabob's & chislic (a family favorite) on the grill, cocktails and several of us participated in the "Best Koozie"and "Most Unusual Beer" Contest. My brother Chris won the "most unusual beer" with his home-brewed beer - which was surprisingly really good! A cowboy boot-shaped koozie ended up being the Best Koozie winner! My niece Joslyn (below) tried to join in the adult cocktail hour & my brother Chris thought this would be a funny picture - sorry mom :)

After much fun at the photographers, we all headed out for a "trip down memory lane" and traveled a few short miles to see the home where my grandfather was born which was also my dad's home un
The next stop was the cemetary where my grandparents parents are buried and then back to the lodge for cocktail hour followed by a formal dinner honoring my grandparents. We started off the meal by all gathering around in a circle and had to say what we were all thankful for which was really nice. Grandma brought us all to tears by saying she was thankful for her health and for having all of us there in her life to support her during her battle with cancer. After dinner, we gathered in the living room and all of us got up and shared with my grandparents our favorite memories with them starting with their children & spouses followed by us grandchildren. It was so neat to hear everyones memories and it made us all feel so lucky to have been blessed by my grandparents love!
Sunday, August 17
"The One Where...I Have A B-Day"
On Friday, my co-workers all brought food in for an early B-Day lunch and surprised me with flowers and a White Chocolate Raspberry Cheesecake made by my friend Stetson (who professionally makes & sells them) and they are YUMMY! Everyone signed a funny B-Day card and just made the day a special one!Sunday, August 10
"The One With...A Fun-Filled Weekend"
"The One With...Proud Aunt pics"

This adorable little "chunky monkey" is my nephew Tanner - or as I like to call him "Tan Man" or "Tan Tan")! He just had his 9 mos old photo shoot and wanted to share a few of his pics! I get to see this cute lil' guy in 2 weeks as well as my 9 mos old niece Joslyn so look for more pics to follow soon with Aunt Heather :)

