I would consider myself a kind person. One that goes out of my way to help others. I am more a "giver" than a "receiver" & will do things for others in hopes they too will "pay it forward".
According to Wikipedia, the definition of a random act of kindness is: a selfless act performed by a person or people wishing to either assist or cheer up an individual person or people.
I have been the recipient of 3 random acts of kindness this past month alone & wanted to share them with you. In this day & age, acts of kindness from others is sometimes not seen very often but if you look around, you will see that it does exist.
1) Emily is my hair stylist & I have been going to her for 10 years now. She also lives a mile from my house & joins in on our monthly girls game-night gatherings so we are pretty close friends.
A few weeks ago Emily had cut my hair & did an awesome job - as usual. She first washes it, trims it, applies a protecting product, dries it & then uses the flat iron to make sure my "stack" in the back is evenly cut. As she was using the flat iron on my hair I noticed it was steaming & I prayed my hair wasn't burning. It seemed to look okay when she was all finished & I made my way home.
Once home I jumped into the shower & styled my hair so I wouldn't have to wash it in the morning. As I was combing through it, I noticed on each side of my head that my ends were frizzy & damaged.....ALL OVER! The flat iron had fried my hair after all :( I ended up texting Emily the next day to let her know in hopes she would have some magic product for me to use. Well, needless to say, she felt HORRIBLE. That night she showed up to my house - in tears, with this:
It was an "I'm sorry, please forgive me" basket filled with Aveda hair products, a candle, bottle of wine, slippers & candy. Plus she is giving me a free haircut...or two because she felt so bad. And all I wanted was some product to help make my hair not look so frizzy! Thanks to Emily for "doing right" by your customer & your friend :)
2) I work with a super kind lady who is always doing nice things for others. A couple of weeks ago I was telling her about how I hate cooking food in a bowl in the microwave because it always burns my hands when I try & take it out. Well, little Miss Crafty surprised me with these so my delicate little fingers wouldn't get burnt anymore :)
They are quilted bowl covers & are microwaveable so I no longer have to grab a hot bowl - so stinkin' clever! A few months ago she also made me these quilted pot holders....just because! Both have cute little dogs on the fabric - even bulldogs - as she knows I am a dog lover!
3) I have many blogs I follow. Some are about food, others are friends of mine & several are blogs about individual struggles with infertility. I have always kept this part of my life private on this blog. I created a 2nd blog a couple of years ago that is private to most & only deals with my own struggles of infertility. I have gotten to know many fabulous women through these blogs who have been very supportive of me & I of them. One of those women is Amanda. She has never met me nor does she know me in real life. She only knows me through my blog. She has offered me kind words when I was down, has often prayed for me & Shane, as a busy mother to twins, she has sent me several emails with encouraging words & then a few weeks ago I get this in the mail:
She sent me a St. Gerard medal which was blessed at a mass in St. Gerard's honor last year, a St. Gerard handkerchief that has the words Hope, Faith, Prayer embroidered on it along with a lovely note from Amanda.
For those that don't know, St. Gerard is the Patron Saint of Motherhood. I keep the medal in my wallet so it is always with me. The handkerchief is next to my bed & I hang on to it as I say my nightly prayers. This very kind, tenderhearted girl whom I don't know much about sent me these things out of the kindness of her heart & it touched me. Her gesture meant the world to me & I hope she knows just how very thankful I am for her thoughtfulness.
I ended up "paying it forward" & ordered a St. Gerard medal for a girlfriend of mine who is also struggling with infertility. I gave it to her last week & she was also touched by the gesture. I pray every night for all of "us" out there dealing with infertility & hope St. Gerard watches over us all.









